Books every Australian man should read in 2025

Welcome to 2025.

It’s harder to say “happy new year” when you remember that 101 women were killed by men in 2024 (Femicide Watch Australia, 2024).

It might not sound like a huge number, until you compare it to the 46 women who were killed by men in the 2022-23 financial year (AIHW, 2024).

Men killing 101 women in 12 months is horrific because it is a doubling of violence against women in Australia.

Domestic and family violence is a national emergency, with 1 in 4 Australian women having experienced violence from a male partner (White Ribbon, 2024).

With that in mind, I read the following books last year, and I believe they would help any Australian man who wants to understand the current war on women and children in our nation.

More importantly, this information can help any person who wants to help us end the war on women.

I was thoroughly impressed by the way these writers gathered measurable data and research from all around Australia and sometimes internationally.

I’m sure you’ll find the statistics astounding – because I did, and I’ve already been reading on these topics for 20 years.

For example, for women with disabilities, the rate of men’s violence is doubled (Scope Disability Services Australia, 2024).

A note on gender references: All references in this article to “women” include trans women. Much of the data on “women” also includes non-binary people, who are routinely marked as female “for insurance purposes”.

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When the guides for inclusive education are not readable for people with a learning disability

I was diagnosed with combined type ADHD about a year and a half ago, so technically, I am one of the many adult learners with a learning disability.

But even before I knew that, making learning about reading and writing accessible was one of my main passions in life.

So while I’ve been doing my Master of Teaching, I have been dyyyyyyying on the inside while trying to read all these academic texts. Almost none are written accessibly!

Academics are out here talking a great game about how we should make education inclusive and accessible to everyone … but when I read their writing, I experience true mental and physical anguish.

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Giveaway for parents and teachers

Hi parents and teachers!

I’ve got 5 free planners from Twinkl to give away, to help you get your year sorted with your kids or students: https://www.twinkl.com.au/the-twinkl-planner/

If you’re interested, comment your email address and I’ll tell Twinkl to send you a planner. ๐Ÿ˜Ž

This post is not sponsored, I just ordered my planner and they gave me a link to send 5 free planners to others. I’ve really been enjoying using some of the Twinkl resources with my kiddo, and using some of them for prepping lesson plans for the younger grades.

One of my favourite resources is this communication slip for learners who are struggling with emotional regulation because they’re either understanding their own emotions, or communicating their emotions safely to others:

communication slip screenshot shows icons for different emotions and says I feel... because...

This one has quite adorable and intuitive icons for the different emotions (in my opinion) and says, “I feelโ€ฆ becauseโ€ฆ”

So let me know if you’re interested. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Free Lesson Plan: Unpacking the patriarchy in context (Year 10 English)

This is a lesson plan I wrote in 2024, to align with the F-10 Australian Curriculum for an English class. I wrote the plan for one of my university assessments, so I’ve put the research receipts down the bottom of the page if you want to look closer into the background information.

I’m just a student teacher studying my Master of Education, so please feel free to provide kind, specific feedback. ๐Ÿ˜Ž

How to use this lesson plan: I designed this with multiple parts that you can mix and match if you want to run a single lesson … or you can run all parts over a few classes or a double period.

Duration (mins): 70 minutes per class, designed for 2 class sessions or a double period.

Resources needed:

  • PPT and projector
  • Downloaded video clips (for when the WiFi fails us)

Before we get into the lesson plan, though, I just want to clarify one very important question…

Why learn about the patriarchy in English class?

Understanding how the patriarchy perpetuates domestic and family violence (DFV) in Australia is a key part of being an active and informed citizen in 2024. Students are learning empathy as part of the personal and social capability general capability (GC) in the Australian curriculum, and we know that students can build empathy and advocate for others by learning about past and present human rights violations. And because adolescent students are often having their first romantic and sexual experiences, talking about the red flags of abusive relationships helps to protect them from harm.

In a future post, I plan to show you a lesson plan for a Year 10 Psychology class, about how harmful messages in patriarchal societies have affected most people’s implicit biases. Learning to spot our own implicit biases is one of the easiest places to start when learning self-awareness and learning to create psychological safety in our society.

Content for today’s lesson

This lesson focuses on spotting and analysing literary devices and understanding how audiences view a text differently depending on their social and political context. We’ll look at the song Labour by Paris Paloma, which I love as a teaching tool for two reasons.

image shows thumbnail from YouTube video for the official music video of the song Labour by Paris Paloma, posted March 2023.

See YouTube for the official music videos for
labour and cacophony (labour)
by Paris Paloma

First, many students already know this song because it went viral on Tiktok (and then on the rest of social media). So they’re familiar with some of the lyrics, making more brain space available to do the “thinking” analysis tasks of this lesson.

    Secondly, it’s often easier to spot literary devices in poetry texts than in prose like articles or novels, and song lyrics are a highly-effective form of poetry. So teaching Labour as a poetry text means again, students can put more energy towards learning or remembering the content.

    If you’re an education student like me, this reasoning provides evidence of you meeting Australian Professional Standards of Teaching (APST) number 2: knowing the content and how to teach it.

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    Is Bluey anti-feminist? Misogynistic subtext in Bluey’s The Sign

    Bluey is the second-most streamed TV show in the world, according to The Guardian. Not the second-most popular children’s show – the second-most popular show, full stop.

    Everyone loves Bluey and her family. And I do, too!

    But should we? Are Ludo Studio taking their responsibility as a global influence seriously?

    After watching the special, 28-minute episode of Bluey, The Sign, some parents aren’t so sure. And this controversial episode has raised some interesting questions about the patriarchal implications in the rest of the series, too.

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    New Release: Laws for Claws (Paranormal Romance)

    You can now read my new book, Laws for Claws, on Amazon Kindle – it’s even free if you have Kindle Unlimited! ๐Ÿ˜‰

    And the paperback will be available on Amazon as soon as I get the author proof back and check that it’s all printing โœจperfectlyโœจ. ๐Ÿ“–๐Ÿ“š

    Laws for Claws is an urban fantasy novel, not part of the Fire Dancers series.

    This story a werewolf, paranormal romance – delightfully smutty, and definitely NSFW, so it’s such a fun read!

    I included all my favourite tropes in this one – one bed, enemies to lovers, “who hurt you?”, forced proximity, and so many more!

    Addie is a red-headed and red-blooded young lawyer. A rising star at the precinct, sheโ€™s determined to make violence against women a thing of the past.

    But she doesnโ€™t know that someone she put behind bars has just been released โ€“ and theyโ€™re a feral werewolf, out for blood.

    Scott, a police sergeant who leads with empathy and authority, and Lee, a troubled cop in the canine squad, both want to protect her. Theyโ€™re both werewolves in the clan Scott leads, but they have very different priorities.

    Addie is hesitant to let them in, afraid of getting caught in the middle of their friendship, and of upsetting the clan.

    Can the three of them work together to take down the enemy? And maybe even create their own version of happily ever after?

    One of them things I’m most proud of about putting this book out into the world is that I’ve included some of my experience as a #neurodivergent human – diagnosed ADHD, OCD, PTSD, and more.

    Link above not working for you? Try copying and pasting https://www.amazon.com.au/Laws-Claws-Fur-Uniform-Book-ebook/dp/B0CB29NKXV/ into your internet browser.

    Why Amazon Kindle (KDP) is the actual worst

    If Amazon Kindle wasn’t the easiest-to-use book reading platform, and if I hadn’t already spent thousands of dollars on their platform, and if I hadn’t made most of my royalties from listing my books on their platform, I would leave them in a heartbeat — and I still may do so, even in spite of all of that!

    Here’s why.

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    Book launch: Fire Warriors on the Mountain is live!

    Book 2 of my Fire Dancers series — Fire Warriors on the Mountain — is live!

    โœจYou can buy it from Amazon Kindle or paperback here: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B09TN554H7 or you can buy from one of the many other places it is available… (Barnes & Noble, Kobo, etc.)โœจ

    (Oh, and there’s a new edition of book 1 with a new cover to match. ๐Ÿ˜Ž If you already have the Kindle of book 1, you can download the new edition free.)

    You’ll love Fire Warriors on the Mountain if you’ve ever gone through tough times in life, you love a good island holiday, and you love a well-muscled love interest… ๐Ÿ˜‰๐ŸŒด๐ŸŒด๐Ÿคฟ๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿฅญ๐ŸŒถย 

    You don’t neeeeed to have read Fire Dancers in the Sand to understand Fire Warriors, but the paperback for Fire Dancers in the Sand is currently just $5 on Amazon — so why not buy both at once? ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ“–๐Ÿ“—๐Ÿ“˜๐Ÿ“š

    And follow me if you’d like to hear first when Book 3 launches… Fire Gods in the Ice, aiming for a release in the next year! ๐Ÿ“ƒ๐Ÿ“’โฐโœ…

    #books #author #publishing #firedancersbooks #firedancers #travel #islands #fiction #yafantasy #fantasybooks #lovetriangle #amazon #Kindle #sale

    How to Make Money as a Content Creator (In Theory)

    I found myself Googling this exact phrase this week — don’t ask — and could not find the actual answer anywhere.

    As in, the numbers of followers you need to have on each platform before you can join a Creator Fund, get ad sponsors, or monetise your content.

    I’m not at all interested in all those posts that say they’re about how to make money, but they’re actually just about how to make good content. Nope, I’m all about trying to make some extra cash, thanks.

    So I’m collecting the answers here, for you and for me.

    This is all information collated from various sources; this is not from personal experience (sadly). As you’ll see, it’s a challenge, each platform is very different, and none of them make it terribly easy.

    Let me know if you’d like me to add information from any other social media platforms!

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